This is the list of my personal favorite chemistry demonstrations and activities. These are not necessarily kid-safe activities. They tend to include pretty colors and fire. However, if you're performing demonstrations for your own pleasure or to get kids interested in chemistry, these may be just what you seek.

Anne HelmenstineFire is fun. Colored fire is even better. These additives are safe. They won't, in general, produce a smoke that is any better or worse for you than normal smoke. Depending on what you add, the ashes will have a different elemental composition from a normal wood fire, but if you're burning trash or printed material, you have a similar end result. In my opinion, this is suitable for a home fire or kid's campfire, plus most chemicals are found around the house (even of non-chemists).

Anne HelmenstineThis is the old-school chemistry lab volcano, as opposed to the
baking soda volcano that used to be a staple at science fairs. Ammonium dichromate glows and gives off sparks as it decomposes, and makes its own cinder cone of green ash. Chromium compounds are toxic - this is a chemistry lab demonstration and not a great choice for the armchair scientist. It's still cool. It involves fire. See a trend?

Anne HelmenstineThis is a crystal-growing project that is safe and easy enough for kids. You can make shapes other than snowflakes, and you can color the crystals. As a side note, if you use these as Christmas decorations and store them, the borax is a natural insecticide and will help keep your long-term storage area pest-free. If they develop a white precipitant, you can lightly rinse them (don't dissolve too much crystal). Did I mention the snowflakes sparkle really nicely?

Keith Weller, USDAIt's the quick way to make ice cream, plus, if you use your imagination, I'm sure you can come up with lots of other fun activities involving liquid nitrogen. It's easier to
get and transport liquid nitrogen than you might think.

George Doyle, Getty ImagesThere are many color-change chemistry reactions, pretty much using acid-base chemistry. I like this one because the colors oscillate (clear -> amber -> blue -> repeat). The
blue bottle demonstration is similar, and there are other colors you can produce depending on the pH indicator you select.

Timo HalénIt's cooking. It's chemistry. It's fun. This is another activity that's actually pretty safe, inexpensive, and easy.

Anne HelmenstineYou don't need to have esoteric chemicals and a lab to have a good time with chemistry. Yes, your average fourth grader can make slime. That doesn't mean it's any less fun when you're older.
This is the classic chemical garden or crystal garden, and one of the easiest ways to make an aquarium unfit for aquatic life ever again, so use a mason jar or other clear glass container that will serve no other purpose than to do this project. Metal salts react with sodium silicate to form fanciful waxy-looking towers.
If you have ammonium chloride on hand, you can react it with water to make your own cold pack. Ok, maybe I'm easily amused. I also like the
exothermic reaction where you react steel wool with vinegar (no practical use comes to mind).
The 'ink' is a pH indicator that becomes colorless upon reacting with air. Yes, it's cool that it disappears. It's also nice how this is a sort of invisible ink, since you can make the color reappear by applying a basic solution.